Nothing about this is anything to do with you or your 'failings'. None of it. At all. This is strictly your WH being an ass hat.
DB is for you, if you are wanting to save yourself then DB is it. What you do and who you are is vital to putting you in the strongest position for yourself and your precious children.
Your WH is abusing you in front of your children and that has the effect of putting them at risk.
Whilst your mum's depression is sad it's not your job to cure.
You carry a heavy burden, just that on it's own will make you question everything you know. You deserve better.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
