Do not even begin to do MC with an abuser. They will develop that as a tactic to further abuse.
There is no way that someone with this m8ndset can be brought to realisation. If you are hoping for the flash of I did you wrong an apology and a personality transplant. That isn't it.
Similarly never MC a wayward the process will be used to justify an A and to self soothe that they 'tried. And that it's all you.
That way lies pain.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW