Originally Posted By: blakmac
I'm starting to get more frustrated. I was going to check the mail, she showed up and was picking up S from the sitter. She at first didn't even look at me till S pointed it out. She wouldn't roll the window down. I tried to call her because I needed to talk to her about S appointments. Held my phone up, said "It's important."

She shook her head no, then smiled a little, then she drove off.

This is some petty BS.


hmmm, BM you have some work to do. I thought you were just going to show up at the appointment. You understand that every time you reach out like this, and she rebuffs, she knows she still holds the power over you. That was the little smile. I am sure it was more a wry, "I am in control" smile. Don't give her that power. That is what detachment is about.

Don't try to talk to her about the appointment, just show up.


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