Quote.......... This is a matter of cause and effect. For every action there is a reaction. If you change, your spouse WILL change. There is no choice.
Yeah I agree with this concept. It happened to me. I got to a point where I just didn't care. H reacted to that by deciding he didn't want to loose me. Baby steps have been made, slowly, but a person certainly cannot change overnight. Sounds like the book would be good for me, since I don't know what I want anymore. Surely cannot hurt.