You never realize how much you are still not detached until your W leaves for a few days and you feel this pressure drop. No basing your own own state of happiness on the reactions you are receiving.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.