Guys I have been reading all that you have been writing about the PM book. As far as I can tell it is very simular<SP> to Divorce Remedy. Except this other guy uses a lot bigger words. I realized while I was reading DR that the book is not really about saving your marriage at all its about you becoming a better person. More open and loving. The by product of this is your marriage becoming better. It sounds like this is what the PM is about also. It sounds like this guy goes into more details of what is happening under the surface of the actions that each spouse is taking. It has made me very intreguied<sp>.