You need to keep one thing in mind, and one thing only.
That is DO SOMETHING even if it is wrong.
If you wait for your wife to change, given your current MO, then the stars will burn out before anything happens.
I intend no offense, and I have tried to tell you this in many nice ways, as have others - get off it and get moving.
DO SOMETHING.
Tell her what you think. Stop being demure with your wife, or is it 'whipped'?
Please tell us what you have discussed with your wife.
You have to take baby steps the same as the rest of us. So when are you going to take the first one and actually engage your wife in a serious conversation?
CeMar, I can't even begin to tell you what books will or won't help you or what approach will work or not. I can tell you that whatever it is you are doing now is NOT WORKING. So DO SOMETHING, new or different.
To everyone that reads this. If you are not engaging your spouse to help improve your relationship, and I don't mean with reading books, or trying to force feed your spouse your latest theory or someone else's theory, then you are most certainly spinning your wheels and likely wasting your time. I agree that it is a good thing to change one's self toward the better, but that is not going to solve your immediate problem.
I assure you, once your love life is up and running again, all the little relational problems that sabotaged your love life in the first place will jump up for attention. What you do about it THIS TIME, is what is important.
JUST DO IT!
Grow a pair today.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
