Well Zues once again I side with you on this. All this "be a man" stuff doesn't sit well with me. I totally agree...she walked out...then she can walk back. I shouldn't have to light her path for her. The only reason I'm asking her out is to put this to bed once and for all. It's not to guide her, in fact it's not for her at all...it's for me. I want closure on this. But yes, your philosophy is pretty much mine. She needs to "be the man" here as ridiculous as that sounds. She left so she needs to work her butt off if she wants me back. If she wants sex than show it...not through vague signals that can be interpreted as friendship or not. So at heart I agree with you. She needs to get her hands dirty here...I'm not doing all the work. I've accepted her invites, I've answered her texts, and got nothing in return.
So basically I'm asking her out to find out one way or another what she wants from me so this little game of hers doesn't drag on for weeks more. No way, her time to decide is coming the next time she initiates a meet up. It's either she accepts or she doesn't. If she declines I'm done. That's it.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
