Corri, I disagree. I've done handsprings in my marriage and nothing changed. I don't believe that all people can recognize change. Any kind of change scares the he!! out of them and they retreat further, backing away completely because you are changing yourself.
It takes BOTH people in the marriage to make it work on any level. Even if that is a dysfunctional level. If only one person is working on the realtionship and the other person is not, what kind of a marriage is that? Not much of one except on paper.
Get out the slings and arrows because I am not being very supportive right now, just realistic.
