Quote: HD's can not change them. But for the marriage to work, it is a REQUIREMENT for the LD spouse to change. SO the Key piece to the puzzle is again, the LD spouse. If they are agreeable to change, then things might work out,
The LD spouse doesn't have to agree to anything, CeMar. If YOU change, your LD spouse WILL change. It is the law of cause and effect.
If you wait for them to agree to change, you will wait for a mighty long time, fella. You do not, however, have to have anyone's agreement to change yourself.
