Well the thing here is that every chance she got, since our first meeting a couple months back...she says things to stress we are just friends. Things like "we were young" or " we were always better as friends" or there was even one remark she made during our first meeting where, when hanging out with my Aunt, my Aunt told her that "I bet you $20 she moved back from Florida to get back with ItHurts. wAW said my Aunt replied with "I bet you $100 she didn't!" So there's been little things like that that have given me the impression she wanted to indirectly make it clear that R is not her motive for hanging out. There's things you can sense with someone when in person that simply cannot be relayed in writing here. Suffice to say I have seen MUCH more from her indicating she wants us to be friends and virtually nothing to indicate she wants R.

As far as the sexually explicit pic...it really was more a joke in my opinion. I don't think it was some plan on her part to be sexual with me per se.

However, as I've said before... should she ask to hang out again, which she hasn't, I intend to do exactly that and ask her out somewhere. I have zero intentions of hanging around her house again. So I am going to make my move and ask her out. My gut is telling me she will likely do exactly that in the next couple days. I have a date tomorrow night so that's out but maybe Saturday. Either way, the next time she asks to hang out it's crunch time for me. I am going to find out what she wants from this relationship long term. If she says friendship then I'll tell her that's not going to work and to have a good life. The games are done. I want to know where she's coming from and I'm going to find out. Either she loses a great guy that she obviously made sure to come back to in some capacity after 4 years of seeing what's really out there; or I bid her a fond farewell and close the WAW chapter of my life permanently. I'm done with this wishy washy crap from her. It's crystal clear to me that she can't stay away... so now she's going to have to decide what she's going to do about that going forward...with friendship not being an alternative for her. That's it...she needs to pee or get the hell off the toilet.

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14