Well we've been over that theory before LH and as you know others have a different viewpoint, including me. There was, at no time, a window of opportunity to make a move on her that would have had the desired results. It would have ended badly...and most certainly would have put the nail in my coffin. She most definitely wouldn't be reaching out so much if she knew she could have me easily. That's common sense. I appreciate your opinion that I should have been aggressive but as I said, many here in this thread, myself included, think that would have been a very bad idea. She needs to chase ME! She left me...she can chase me. If she doesn't...hasta levista baby. I'm not giving up the driver's seat by making a ill-advise move to sleep with her.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14