I had written the most exciting post but it was during the Disappeared era:-). Lets see if I can catch everyone up.
Remember the guy I was insanely attracted to that worked for my friend? I had one too many margaritas and made an a$$ in front of myself last spring? Yes. Im sure you guys forgot. It was uneventful. Well we were going to meet for a drink. He was insistent and I agreed. It never crossed my mind until the day after we scheduled that he might bail...boom. Call me an old curmudgeon, but FFS why do peeps do this? Yes. I realize that a better, easier opp came along but either a) dont plan something you have no intention of doing or b) send text and say bailing. My feelings (Im building up quite the armor) werent hurt but I loathe rude. Eh. Oh well. Ill run into him soon and Ill be nice.
Oh and I was reading on other threads what folks are attracted to.... Im attracted to primarily black or biracial men. The guy that bailed is white but he has the look that makes me go weak- if thats possible for me. Which is funny, because people (including my guy friends) are always a bit surprised by this. Thats always what Ive been primarily physically and sexually attracted to but never explored until post D. But again, Im more apt to be attracted to those men, however Ive only dated white guys. Just thought it was interesting to read what some others like.
I have another funny Ill share soon. Love reading everyones threads. Hugs!
