My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 2

[Surfer]

Sandi, as per usual, is spot on.

Hard to do I know. But its about detachment and pursuit.

People in this sitch often only want to pursue what they think they cant have, that they have lost. Does she feel she has lost you when she is able to pull those strings? No. She still has the strings and they are firmly attached to your balls. Cut the strings and own (your own) balls.

Often we say we are detaching. But we trick ourselves. Dont fool yourself. Just move on or as MWD would say, act as if.....

Surfer.

Surfer.