Looks as if you have a serial cheater on your hands. For sure......she is a very wayward wife! This may seem like a lot of reading being thrown at you, but I have some threads devoted strictly to the subject of WW's, their mindset, behavior, etc. Also, what the H should/shouldn't do with a WW.

If you are interested, this is the link to the first one:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545554#Post2545554

MWD, the author of DB/DR does not use the term wayward wife in her books. She writes about the walk away wife and mid-life crisis. I feel the wayward W is a different breed, so to speak, and requires tougher love. Just wanted to explain this, so as not to confuse you.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!