Quote: If you need him to need you, how does that tie into your self-image? Can you be your self if he needs you less? Isn't it one of the things that BUGS you how needy he is? Doesn't it make you relate to him more like a "mommy" than a wife? Maybe there's something there... only sickos want to ML with their little boy...
I have to seriously think about this one. It's not something I like to recognize in myself, cause I hate seeing me as anything less than the perfect person I am...
But... I can certainly see if I AM doing this, how it facilitates the cycle, and plays on his weaknesses rather than his strengths.
God, don't you just hate it when you see your own warts...?
