Raw I am right where you are man. I have lost 20 #s in 6 weeks. Had knots in my stomach, no sleep since. Cant eat its been rough. Found out about OM yesterday, worst day of my life.
I will be picking up kids tomorrow and I will have the day that you had seeing her for the first time since officially finding out. Said she is moving in with him next week. wow, so quick.
Trust me a WW, they are manipulating us big time. Like they say don't believe what she says. Her head is so into new guy she don't know what the hel she is talking about.
Yesterday I got told shes never ever felt this way about anyone. I said girl we got 2 kids together. It didn't matter to her. She loves her babies S6 S2 like nothing you ever seen, but even they have been put to the side. Its so sad.
Keep reading, learning, and trying. I pray for you that your wife has a change of heart, learns from it and your babies come home to you. Read WW by sandi2 she was a WW. it helps me, I read all those threads 5xs a day.