I've read tons and tons of posts about how or why WW lost respect for H and have a pretty good understanding about why this happened in my own situation. My question is how do you earn that respect back from WW when you are separated. My wife had an A (1 night stand) and immediately dropped the bomb the next day. She has her head down, steamrolling to a D completely distracting herself from feeling anything. She is definitely the WW you have described in your posts. She is void of feelings and has pathetic pity on me that she hurt me, yes I'm working on my Nice Guy Traits..Thank-you for any insight on how to get her out of her fog