Really appreciate looking into my stitch and responding. However, I have a few points to make.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
She wants you to tell her not to go through with it.......and you are being prideful (of all times) and won't tell her. She is being prideful, b/c you won't tell her to stop the D. You are putting the burden on her back, and that makes her more angry at you. That is crazy!
I beg to differ that i have never attempted to stop the divorce. Of all things on earth, I have been doing my best and asked her to reconsider many number of times. However she is very adamant. Just like many other postings here, i hace stopped asking her as it appears like pursuing. So your above statement about me not stopping her is wrong. I have attempted every opportunity to have a meaningfull & peaceful conversation with her. However she doesn't budge. It appears she is under the influence of her family or she is simply leaving me due to my issues and my hate towards my family. I don't knkw!!
Originally Posted By: sandi2
As for as a conversation that would help you move on.......I'm not sure I fully understand, b/c you've told her you want no more conversations.......so what are you wanting to really say? Do you want to tell her to stop the D, or do you want to move on?
I want this relationship back more than anything. However i am just manging things under my control. I don't beleive in divorce. I don't want it and i never did. However i dont have an option. I am simply a scape goat and made to accept my fate here and forced to move on. What do you suggest on how i handle this?
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
