1. She is texting sexual with you, when you guys havent yet been on a date? 2. Her last boyfriend was a married man?
I gues it depends on what u are looking for.
When i was in my early 20, to me a great guy was someone educated. Someone that was a professional. Some one tall. Someone that wasnt a womanizer. Someone that would make a good father amdand a good provider. Someone that looked good on paper.
Look where i am now.
I think now i am looking at someone that might not have a higher education but saved so he could provide for his daughter. Someone that preferred coming home to his partner as opposed to staying out for a few beers with the people he sees all day at work.
I even wrote something along the lines of "I dont have any particular types..would just like someone that follows a good moral compass" on my profile.
I do make mistakes. But at least i dont repeat them.