Ok, just a follow up. We just had a text exchange about some stuff with the kids, and kinda veered off into R land..I simply said that if she were with someone else and had feelings for them, maybe she should just move on. She says that how she feels for me has NOTHING to do with another person. I responded saying, you aren't denying it though..that there is another person..she said I'm not doing anything. Then said, if you mean working on you and me, you know I'm not going to do that.

So..she has stated she wants to stay as roommates basically and have freedom to come and go..what should I do...LTR? Give up? Help.