If she's in an EA, it may be with a female, which I now remember we have previously discussed. I think in some instances, it doesn't have to be sexual in nature, but women can become very emotionally connected to where it interferes with the other areas of their life. Women can have a powerful affect on each other.
Sorry, if this was all a repeat.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!