Corri, Thanks for your comments. I have the PM book on order so it should arrive soon but to be honest I'm not sure if I'm going to understand much of it if Tim's comments are anything to go by. I have no problem expressing my love for her and I'm a nice guy to have around. I listen to her and talk to her and I help around the house. If I was able to accept giving of lots of love and receiving little in return we'd be perfectly happy but I can't face another 20 years of a one sided R. I'm new to the scientific approach so I'm bound to make mistakes. It's not easy trying to find the "right" way of doing things because natural instincts keep getting in the way and I know they are wrong because they have not worked for me up to now. SD
