Hi all, I have never worked on setting goals before as part of DB and want to start concentrating on that going forward. I need input from you all in determining if I am on the right path. All goals are short term for 1-2 weeks time frame, once I achieve them I plan to keep adding to the list.
Self - Meditate starting with 5 mins to reach 10 mins everyday in 2 weeks - Workout 5 days/week - GAL at least 1-2 hrs per week leaving kids with H
Family - Play as family with Ds and try including H for up to 5 mins in 2 weeks, start off with playing just with kids at home
R - validate more - be cheerful and patient (currently doing) - appreciate H for doing house chores (currently doing)
I need help in adding more goals to my short term list, considering we are in the mediation phase I do not want any hard to achieve items on my list and I am so weary of adding wrong things on my list
Is it okay to pay compliments on their looks or on what they are wearing?
H is a painter and paints a lot and displays it around the house, should I show appreciation towards this or will it be pursuit? He used to paint and show it to me earlier but stopped sharing things with me last 6 months even though I asked him to. As part of DB I have not shown interest in his activities since he clearly has cut me out of his life.
