I was curious if anyone had any experience or advice when it comes to dealing with mutual friends and family when you are detaching. While I ve been detaching it has been very hard to not keep up appearances for mutual friends (especially with kids) and with family.
A lot of our social life revolves around mutual friends - and It really is the last barrier to true detachment for me and in a lot of ways make it hard to GAL. According to detachment I should be doing my own thing independent of my WW. But to the outside world and mutual friends, everything is fine.
Does anyone have advice based on their experience?
