Can I really do this #3

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Steve and Hongaku thank you for weighing in.

Steve, i don't know if I am enabling my W by keeping in confidence between what parents are speaking about. When I think about it, I actually think this was a very unselfish act on my W's part. She was coming back from the "friend" side with my D and her friends and sharing parent to parent information about the teenagers and hoping we all can work together to make them better people and away from making huge mistakes.

Nothing against your opinion Hongaku and I do appreciate it and yes, she may be cake eating a little IF that situation arises, but I believe I am going to side with Steve. Everything I have read regarding DB is that as long as there is no PA (W, outside of moving the kids around has not been by herself except for a few hours Sunday morning since the kids got out of school. Hardly enough time to set something up and when we got home she was wearing the same clothes, no hair done, no make up, etc so really no reason to believe a PA is happening). Knowing my wife, IF she were to attempt this it would be HUGE for her as she would be "putting herself out there" again to me.
Sex is huge in a MR, it is not the end all get all, but intimacy in all its aspects is of vital importance.

These last few posts, again, may be for nothing and I may be deluding myself, so I am just wondering inside my head and maybe dreaming just a bit. But I appreciate everyone here, the feedback and support!