CeMar, You consistently make the same point and I totally agree with it. You want to feel DESIRED and that is the ultimate goal. With DESIRE everything else follows on. I was wondering if my W was married to someone really strong and sure of himself like say, Bruce Willis or John Travolta would she be able to maintain desire for them over many years. I suspect she could. I have to admit I'm more like Hugh Grant. She probably got bored with me forever letting her have her own way. SD
