Expers Please Help!!! Walk Away Spouse after 6 yrs

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Sandi2,

I have seen some of your most recent posts that you provide scenario based conversations between LBH and WAS. Would you be able to provide me some possibilities in the future on how my relationship would end so I can accept it and move on with life. My D is looming in just couple of weeks.

I will gave you a bit of context on what happened durring the last conversation.

We are seperated since 3 months. WAS insisted in talking to me casually and sent me a text while i was packing to relocate to a different city permanently leaving marital home. I agreed.

WAS: its been a hard time for both of us but i will always be your well wisher. If you need any help let me know i will be glad to.

Me: i am doing fine. I will manage and thanks for asking.

WAS: as you know we finally managed to decide what is best for both of us and this D is the solution. We both finally agreed mutually.

Me: i never agrred to D and there was no mutual agreement.This was your decision. You decided and I am OK with it. Please dont say that we mutually agreed.

WAS: All right i will take the entire blame for the downfall of this his marraige but i know we didnt have an option.

Me: i am not blaming you or anyone else here.its just a fact and i am simply stating it.thats all.

WAS: (crying and emotional) you have decided not to contest anything and allowed me to keep all money i earned. I cannot repay you back for all the emotional support and help you gave me to help me where i stand.you have to take money from me.

Me: listemed to her for a while. I stopped her short befire she continued long. I have my own self respect. I have told you i dont need your money earlier and i dont want even now. Even if i am on deathbed i wont come for your money. Its yours. I have heard you this and lets not discuss this again please.

WAS: Please dont talk about death. I also wanted to advice you you need to be careful about your investments in shares and stocks.dont play around too much. Its bad.

Me: stopped her short and told her what i do with my Money and my investments is my decision. I really do not need your advise.

WAS: "i am sorry".

(She said she was sorry after a very long time. I have never heard that word from her mouth since ages)

Me: when are your parents going to your native place so i can mail the marital assets to your home?

WAS: they are here right now and coming to me on d day. in another 2 months they leave back to our country but you can donate that to charity if its such a burden to you and your family. Even after divorce you can come to me anytime and i will give you money. Its always yours.

Me: i will see what can be done aboutbtjose assets.I think at this point we have had enough discussions and i think hopefully this is the last conversation we will ever have.

I said this and asked her to end the call unless we had eanything to discuss. We hung up.

Next day she calls me at 5 am before she left for work and i did not pick up. She sent a text saying she promised not to disturb or bother me one i leave this place but however she has few things she wants to talk about.

I woke up in the morning saw the message and texted back this - i never wanted any of this to happen and never did. Our relationship permanently ends in few weeks. At this time we need to keep our conversations strictly to divorce matters. However i will indulge u this one last time.remember this is the last convo we will EVER have. I want you to agree to my terms. A few chit chat on day of divorce and one email from you after divorce regarding health insurance switch over (i still pay her health insurance) and i will send an email / mail to send marital gifts back to her native. Wether you agree to these terms or not i want to wish you the very best in your life.
She sees text after work and calls me furiously with agony and emotions that evening.

WAS on call : consider this my last call per your request. There are many things in this relationship that were never answered and i may never find a closure or solution for it. Why did you marry me when you never loved me? Just because you wanted to keep up with the promise you made for marraige? I gave you 6 months time expecting you to do something about the way i was treated by your parents. Now all this is too late (she expects apology from my parents who i have not been in touch in more than 6 months. Of course doesn't accept any of her faults for how she treated them) i did not want this divorce. However i did not have an option. You and your parents forced me to take this option because you all wanted this divorce to happen initiated from my end and not from your end. You really dont know the condition that i am in right now and leaving you in this agony. Regarding the email ,why should i send? I will have my lawyer contact you. Wish you all.the best.and hung up.

During the entire course of time i never spoke a word except the initial greeting. I simply listened.
I sent her this text after that(i shouldnt have but i had to make myself heard) - what u said is crazy. You are a grown up woman and you can take your decisions.no one is forcing you to do that for you. I did not want this divorce and i never did.if you still want to discuss like a grown adult i am willing to.

She texted back - i am a grown woman and i have taken my decision. Consider this my last msg and text per your suggestion. Good luck and all the best for your future.

I texted - i reiterate if you still want to discuss like a grown adult i am willing to.

She texted back - i am a grown woman and i have made my decision and i will abide with it. I will not contact you and neither should you! End this.
"you dont deserve me!"

After that it been 2 weeks + and no contact from either of us. Please provide some possible scenarios going forward and how i should deal with it. And hopefully a good closure to this relationship so it can help me move on.