This is something that I got fomr PM while skimming through it at the bookstore. In effect here is what I interpreted: LD women loss attraction to their HD mates because their HD mates are accepting them for being LD. In effect, the LD woman KNOWS she is not good sexually for the man, she does not give the man the sex life he really deserves, but the fact that he ALLOWS her to give him crap, means that he does not stand up for himself and appears weak, which causes her to loss even more desire for him. What a vicious circle this becomes. Her desire for her man is dependant upon him NOT accepting her as she is.
Now my head is spinning big time. First, we are told that we need to accept ouir wives for who they are. Now I see that to be strong, confident men, we must NOT accept our wive for who they are if they are LD. To maintain our own integretiy, we must not tolerate their LD ways. Can someone tell me which way is right?
