Being detached doesn't mean you will tolerate betrail in your own house.

Steve, you are right, I am at a critical point. I'm reaching the end of my patience. I'm beginning to feel like to fool that hung on too long.

What did I expect when I initiated? I didn't expect anything other than the common courtesy of an honest answer.
Based on her recent mood I thought she would be into it. I expected nothing.

As for being unfulfilled? I wouldn't say that. I've seen some movement. I got to say and was listened to for the first time in months. If this expedites her exit. So be it. I can say I don't regret having this R talk. It put her in her feminine energy. Last night we went to dinner and she seemed better than ever.

I'm kind of done tippy-toeing around her feelings while suppressing my own.

She is leaving to fish my daughter out of college today. Hopefully, she will have some time to reflect.

Me? I'm going to enjoy myself.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.