DonH well said. I agree.. Sometimes it takes adversity to get us to improve. That's Biblical so I can't take credit for it.

I feel that marital problems either end up bettering the relationship or destroying it.

hoos the key to keeping this permanent is to remember the feeling when your sitch was raw and never let your guard down. Thus was the mistake I made after 2005. Afrer my initial sitch I blew it again and ended up with another BD last December.

I heard it like this. A MR is like a car. keep up the routine maintenance and it will run smoothly. If not it will suffer a breakdown and it will take a big effort to repair it.

The old an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018