I know guys like you. My brother is a guy like you. Successful. Loyal. Works hard to provide for his family.
Unfortunately, you married someone that is spoiled and has absolutely no idea what a good partner is. Your wife has financial security, 3 healthy children, time and opportunity for leisure and vacations, and a doting husband. Not enough for her though? She wants more. She feels entitled to more.
What makes her so deserving of this?
Why are you pining for someone that is disloyal, unappreciative, spoiled, deceitful, and uncommitted? Someone that puts herself over her own children?
She cheated on you. Cheating exposes you to physical risk. A physical risk you don't have the choice to make. Not to mention the emotional damage it does to you.
Cheating on a spouse does emotional damage to the children as well. They sense it. Read these forums. They act out in scary ways. Suicide, eating disorders, behavioral issues. Anyone that cheats on the father/mother of their children is not a good parent. They are extremely selfish.
My point is, you have value. She does not. She is not a prize. I would never want to date a person capable of cheating.
Know your worth. You are a good partner, but should be with someone that deserves you.
