I need a very serious chat with you. NOW. This minute.
You must be grey rock, medium chill and BIFF.
Keep your cards close to your chest and STFU.
You can't out crazy or truth bomb them. It makes everything WORSE. Do not prod the bear.
Usually I just give my view, this time it's with bells on it. Please Google mistakes men make in D and high conflict D.
Get a security camera, you are allowed one of those. This woman is crazy loco, nuts and off her trolley. Scrambled eggs for brains with tomato sauce. Ww is seriously decompensating and it could go anywhere. It's beyond your pay grade and it's shocking.
Dangerous in a different way to Orange WW who is a cold calculator (anti social), your WW is a hot reactor (histrionic) addicted and compulsive.
You are being 'smeared' and it can get WORSE. If not more ludicrous.
You can not 'nice' this. Surfer is your go threads to for a disordered spouse. You might read Schermann too.
You are going to have to take what I say on trust for now, do not provoke the sleeping bear. It's easy to forget you are draining the swamp when you are knee deep in crocodiles.
Also even if you gave WW almost everything it will be worth it. I know that's tough and you can fight for your side.
On recording, generally it's a fine rather than anything else (courts have too much to do than prosecute all recorders of events) and WW would have to take legal action for compensation . So even if not permitted if it protects you do it, it can't be evidence but it can be protective if she comes at you. Likely not a criminal but civil offence.
This stuff scares me.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW