Am I Piecing, or Pi$$ing in the wind???

[Gordie]

Reread the sections on LRT ultimatums and after the LRT

I have been where you are and that all helped me

You can only control you and feel like you are still acting like a H

Re finances

Maybe it is in your best interest to sell the house

Sounds like you can not afford it right now

Better to sell on your terms than go through foreclosure

Then you can live a life you can afford independent of your w

That would be free if to both of you