Hi Cory, it is escalating really fast. My sitch is similar, I think H is a speeding train crushing everyone in his path but yours is a burning freight train.What I have learnt in here is that time is the LBSs friend, the WAS is worried they may have a change in heart so they rush through this. While I am doing the same in my sitch, meeting a mediator so we have some open communication, I would not budge from what I know I want. The advice I received in here that is useful is that you do not do any work for the D, if your WW wants it she will have to do it all by herself. You can just say you are opposed to the D and while you will not stand in your path you will not be able to help her with it either. She can proceed by herself. You just drop the rope and wait and watch because you have a life outside of the MR
