I am so happy to see things continue to rebuild for you guys. From my POV this would not have happened had you not walked out. You may remember me telling you about how an incident with my ex W turned things around and I just felt the same would happen to you. Had you not done that you'd still be where you guys were with your W only going through the motions.
As for your ex friend and the affair, did you ever find out what really happened there? If you did, I don't remember you talking about it here. Was she physically intimate with him? Did they "just" kiss or was there more, or perhaps much more? I hope you'll be comfortable talking about this as I wonder if it makes a difference? With Sandi, she never actually had sex with her AP. If it's the same with your W does that have somethung to do with both Ms (yours and Sandi) staying together. It's almost like they both dipped their toes but never jumped in. Oh, I know it didn't feel that way for either of you, I'm sure, but from afar it seems to make sence. Would like to hear your perspective.
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DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
