Cory-- Wow, that escalated fast. (Your sitch, i mean. frown ) IMO you need to crash course on the Last Resort Technique (LRT) from the DB books. Maybe even the "Beyond the Last Resort Technique". Not sure how many similarities your sitch has to mine other than that we both appear to be involved with "Wayward Wives" (WWs), but i will offer up this, which is probably the most pertinent and impactful piece of advice i have received on here, at least in terms of "Turning things around" with a WW: "You will never look more attractive to her than when you are walking away." (And i am not alluding to the attractiveness, or lack thereof, of your backside.)

I hope Sandi2 chimes in on your thread because it really looks like you are staring down the headlight of a freight train here-- my sitch never moved anywhere near this fast.

Hang in there! Alot of good people here rooting for you and eager to help out!


H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7

"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3