Thanks, Steve. Yes, I am going for full custody. So if I get that, it will help. In this state you cannot secretly record someone. However, you do not need their consent. You just have to tell them they are being recorded. That is my plan if W shows up at the house. Just pull out the phone and tell her I am going to record the whole time she is there. I know it will piss her off, but whatever. I need to make sure I am covered...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019