Originally Posted By: OrangeK
I can say this. The financials will likely not work out like you expect, you probably wont get a raw deal there.

File first if thats the route youre going. Being the petitioner has its advantages.

And.....i know this may sting, but you may want to consider protecting yourself with a Rest. Order.
She is too volitile.


I am the one filing. As much as I don't want to, I need to do what is best for me and the kids. I also planned on bringing up the RO or OOP tomorrow when I talk to the L. I just need her to stay away from me. She's lost it. With the stories she's been telling everyone, I am afraid she's going to pull something like coming over to see the kids or pick something up and then trying to say I hit her or something. I also plan on having my phone out and videoing everything that goes on if she does show up. I can't afford not to...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...