I can say this. The financials will likely not work out like you expect, you probably wont get a raw deal there.

File first if thats the route youre going. Being the petitioner has its advantages.

And.....i know this may sting, but you may want to consider protecting yourself with a Rest. Order.
She is too volitile.

I know, my RO sux and is a pain in the D process, butyou need to be safe for you and your kids. What if some of the S**t she is throwing at the walls eventually sticks and you end up in legal trouble for something your innocent of.
I know how that feels and it is crap.
Id ask your L about it.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds