Moving on (Saying ILY pt. 5)

[mtb1981]

Thanks, guys... I haven't had any contact with her for a little over a week. She sent a couple texts on Wed and tried to call on Fri, but I never responded to either. It's just a matter of time before she pops up. Not quite sure how I'm gonna handle it. Part of me just wants to keep doing what I've been doing and the other part wants to call her out on her BS. I really just want to ask, "Hey, what's with all this. Have you really convinced yourself that I show up at your place in the middle of the night an slam your head against walls? Seriously, what's with that? We both know it's not true, so why keep saying it?". I'd like to see her reaction and response to that. I meet with the lawyer tomorrow to go over the paperwork before he sends it in. I'm really having a hard time with this. Especially the financial aspect of it. It really grinds my gears that I might have to give her half of everything I've worked for my entire life. Half my retirement fund, the equity on the house, spousal maintenance, etc. Why should I have to pay her for ruining our lives? I feel like the big loser in this whole deal. I never wanted any of this, but yet she gets to walk out and get handed a chunk of money to continue on her warpath. It's a bunch if bull$hit...