Isn't it more that you need to be open and wait until she WANTS to come to you?
You say potato...
But, yes, i suppose the word "make" is somewhat antithetical to the DB mindset. You can't control someone else you can only control you. But i think we're saying the same thing.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
