Can I really do this #3

[hoosjim]

Thanks for the feedback guys!
I am hesitantly optimistic.

She hasn't mentioned anything about it and neither have I, nor will I. It was a moment. Whether it was looking back, guilt, missing "us", or whatever that caused that moment, I am glad I was awake when and got to experience it on my side. She kind of crawled back in a hole yesterday and when I got home she said something like "woke up in a bad mood and it hasn't gotten any better with the kids today". Acknowledged her feelings, went on my run and on with my evening. I realize this is a long process and there will be many, many bumps, set backs and crazy emotional things happen before this can even remotely get better so I am settling in for the duration.

JS, I really, really hope and pray that this is a positive sign. Just keep paying attention to your DB-ing and remember that there may be positive signs, your W may actually let down her gaurd, draw closer for a brief spell... and then pull back again, especially if you make a big deal about it or, in fact, even mention it. I saw this my WW over the course of nearly a year and half so many times i can't even begin to tell you. Even if it is something they know you saw, heard, or experienced, the WW can very well and quite likely will deny it ever happened or put some negative spin on it.

Keep DB-ing. You need to make her come to you.