Affair discovered 2

[STH17]

I called my bank yesterday and was told that the only way to remove W from joint accounts was to close them. I thought they would be able to remove her if she signed something herself. Apparently not. I think I should move forward with that. Unfortunately the closest bank branch is out-of-state an hour away. W and I didn't talk much about how to split accounts other than she'd keep hers and I'd keep mine. So based on that I could just not give her anything from the joint accounts (since I'm the only one who ever deposited into it). We also talked about splitting our current credit card debt though. I think if I pay for her medical bills now after separating our bank accounts, I will want to account for that in our settlement agreement. I expect to buy her out of the house, so I could just deduct the value of her medical payments from the buyout amount. I told her I would not keep her from getting healthcare, and I don't want to go back on my word with that.