Stopped by the local bar that the W used to work and was recently barred from for a couple beers before I went to the grocery store. Had several people come up to me and tell me she had been saying that she says I showed up at her house recently and slammed her head on a wall. Tried to show them a nonexistent bruise on her forehead. As sad as all this is, I'm glad and upset that I heard this all at the same time. I'm upset because none of it is true and it $ucks that she is doing this and trying to make me look bad. On the other hand, I'm glad because it sure makes it a lot easier to detach. The past few days I've been struggling with detaching. I've had thoughts that I need to be more welcoming and accomodating to her in case she has a change of heart and wants to R. But now I realize she is just completely nuts and there is no way I want to be with someone that does things like that. The bartender there also informed me that she was up there a few weeks ago talking about how she asked me for money and I wouldn't give her any, so she broke into the house and stole the silver coins I had mentioned in a previous thread. She's just crazy and I need to get over her and move on. Never in my life did I think I would be dealing with a situation like this...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...