Chris, you re trying too hard to understand. Nothing makes sense with wayward wives. I m like you. I was always looking for answers. 11 months later thinking and analyzing day and night, I can only tell you that it s a waste of time. It will only drive you crazy. You may never find a satisfying answer. It s about doing what works, mostly for you.

But you re right. There may be someone else. There are plenty of reasons for her to hide it. I think my wife has an affair, but I have no proof. The question is what will you do if you find out she is.

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Me:49 XW:41, M:18 years, Kids: S18,S14
BD:JULY 2017, W moved out: DEC 2017
Filed for D: APR 2019, D Final: JULY 2019