@STH17 - I think that you're being too much of a nice guy. I challenged the DB way, following its root and took some drastic steps. I even took myself off XWs medical aid, changed bank accounts, all to show that I didn't need her, but I still made it clear that I wanted her, but only if she wanted me back.
Turns out that she didn't want me back, and i filed for online D. She definitely never saw that moment coming and celebrated it at a lovers hill in cape town and pasted it on FB. Which she quickly removed.
You will never know your WWs heart, even her actions will be contradictory, but ultimately if she really wanted you, you'd know, like you knew before.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
