Affair discovered 2

[STH17]

We talked a bit about custody too, and where we'd be living. A lot of things I'd been worried about. I asked her if she thought we needed to make decisions about where to live together

Would you explain what you meant by living together?

Poor wording. I meant make decisions together about where to live, not about living together. Like, we could each decide to live in a different state if we don't make that decision together. But then one of us would have to take primary placement (residence) for S4. W didn't sound like she had any strong feelings about who he would be placed with or how far apart we would be. After doing some reading today, it sounds like it would be best for my son if W and I ended up living close enough to each other that we could both be active in parenting and things like school pick-ups and drop-offs.