STH, I think you are missing a potential opportunity here to shake her from her fantasy fog.
Yeah I think that's true. Later I was thinking I could have asked, since she's found somebody to replace me already, why doesn't she ask that person to pay all her medical bills? I could "change my mind" and still say that, but I just don't want to say something that hurtful to her. I think I'm still afraid of escalating conflict in the divorce. Like it really isn't going to be hard to come to an agreement. Filing myself is just an empty threat that doesn't do anything to stop divorce either. Even when she asked this morning if I'd file jointly, I still couldn't agree to that.
Me:30 W:31 S:4 M:7 T:12 PA: 5/6/18 - ? W moved out 7/18
