Thanks everyone. We talked this morning and it was actually very civil and she seemed relieved that I had changed my mind. I tried to steer everything from R talk, but we touched on a few things and I think we both agree to stay in the same house but give each other space. Honestly, I don't think either of us has a clue as to what will happen. I'm certainly not ready to give up, and I suspect she isn't either. If this A runs it's course and I keep TLR'ing, things may turn better for us.